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Victims, Survivors, and Conquerors of the World by Rob Sperry

What are you investing in?  We are all investors and fall into 3 groups of people.  We all create our own life’s by the mental picture we perceive.
What do you envision yourself as?  If you were to write down who you are, what type of person you are and your perception of what you can or can’t do what would it be?
Do you envision yourself as always having bad luck and you aren’t meant for success?  Or do you envision yourself as someone who has to struggle for a certain period of time before you succeed?  Do you envision yourself making insane amounts of money right out of the gate?  I have met a lot of people who claim they envision massive success but how many truly envision it so clearly that they make it happen? Let’s talk about the 3 different types of people in detail.  Victims, Survivor’s and Conqueror’s.
As I write on these 3 subjects I want all of you to be honest with yourself and where you think you fall in these 3 categories.
VICTIMS – Victim’s are those who always COMPLAIN and WHINE.  They always seem to think they are unlucky and that everyone else get’s all the breaks.  Victim’s rarely take responsibility.  They blame others for their problems.  They project their problems…. Meaning if money is an issue they make it someone else’s issue as well.  If time is an issue for them they make that issue everyone else’s and so on and so on.  Victims always seem to find their issues in everyone else.  I personally never have the issue of, I don’t have any money.  I believe that’s because the money was never an issue for me.
Victim’s blame everything they can on someone or something else.  They blame their upline for not enough support.  They blame the product for not working as well as they thought it would.  They find every excuse known to man and they use them frequently.  They get so good at giving the excuses and buy into their own philosophy that they become more and more of a victim.  Ralph waldo emerson said, “shallow men believe in luck…. strong men believe in cause and effect.”
If you are a victim of life don’t worry there is hope….  Of course you must first be honest with yourself and identify who you are.  In order to fix the problem you have to admit there is a problem.
SURVIVORS – Are widely known to most as a good thing.  I would classify survivors as a notch above victims but for the most part I would call survivors: STRUGGLERS.  Why would I do that?  Well let me explain.  Survivors won’t quit but don’t yet expect success.  They don’t feel like they deserve success yet.  They hope for it and believe that someday it will happen.  That someday something will click or will change in their business or in life.  They don’t take total initiative but they are persistent.  They are more persistent in their minds then their actions.  By that I mean they come to meeting, listen to the calls but they avoid the core of the business which is consistently recruiting and talking to new people.
Survivors have the least amount of disciplined persistence necessary to survive and keep going.  They still have tons of fear.CONQUERORS – This is the top of the food chain. Many in this category were at one time survivors and even possibly victims but they progressed. Conquerors have the abundance mentality.  They expect and deserve success.  Their mind set is at a whole different level.  Fear doesn’t rule their universe.  If they have fear they take action immediately and their fear leaves.  Conquerors know that 80 percent of learning comes from outside the classroom.  We learn by doing!!!  85% of millionaires don’t have their college degree.  It is cause Conquerors don’t make excuses.  They dig deep and make it happen.  No one who is normal ever makes history.  Don’t be normal.  If you want to be normal than you want to be in over 10 k credit card debt, working 9 to 5, making 30,000 a year with no retirement.  If you want to be normal you will do what the average american does which is watch over 6 hours of TV a day.  Conquerors aren’t normal.
Conquerors are the opposite of victims.  The glass is half full.  They seek out support from their upline but if they don’t get it, they take initiative and figure out a way to make it happen.  They think they are lucky always being at the right place at the right time.  They understand luck favors the persistent.
There is a great quote in Chineese proverb: “The best time to plant a tree is 2 years ago.  The 2nd best time is today.”  I think that quote relates well with our topic.  Sure maybe you haven’t done what you could have or should have accomplished.  Start today.  Find the courage and inner strength to believe in your potential.
God did not put anyone on this earth to fail.  We all have ability and we all have talent to succeed.  If you don’t believe it then you are lying to yourself!  This business is a lot of fun.  It is fun overcoming fears and building confidence.  It is fun helping others progress.  It is fun making money and it is even more fun helping others make a lot of money.
Please if you remember anything at all just remember you can really do this.  You can really do this.  Become the conqueror of your life!

Keys to success:
1. Don’t ever quit based on discouragement or an irrational emotion (survivor)
2. Take initiative and become the conqueror

These principles apply in life.  Obviously in life there are things that you should quit and need to move on to.  The key in quitting is not to base a decision of an irrational emotion.  Pre-determine when you will quit.  Make decisions on quitting from a conquerors perspective.  Here is another great quote, “People think that is holding on that makes you stronger; but sometimes it is letting go.”

Lastly I want to point out that each one of us has some victim, survivor and conqueror in us.  I know Fathers who are great Fathers but lousy at business.  I know athletes who are conquerors in their sport but are victim’s in other aspects of their lives.  The goal is to become better in all aspects of life but especially the one’s that you deem valuable.